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What is Inner child Self-healing?

Inner child Self-healing

Before I go any further about inner child self-healing and attempt to scratch the surface about this self-healing concept, I’ve got to say that back when I could not even truly phantom the deep meaning of it myself, I simply dismissed it as to why would I want to think about that? like “rrrss, ahhgh what a bunch? I sure did and so do many of us.

It wasn’t until many years later that I revisited the subject. While exposing my own shadows to myself wasn’t easy it was certainly both undeniable & surprisingly worth it!

The question is how much do you want some change in your life? By reading this with an open mind and being certain that you’re safe here (there is only you), learning doesn’t take space on our hard drive after all… Be assured that you have nothing to lose other than, perhaps a max of 10 minutes of your time reading it.

There are no good or bad definitions for inner-child in the context I am referring about. The intent and attempt aren’t to define it but rather convey a meaning, a feeling an emotional engagement rather and so I invite you to go a little deeper.

 


Your Inner child Self-healing insight is the transformation that you desire


I propose that we resurrect our inner joy, and begin looking forward to prolonging our inner contentment fearlessly, free-spiritedly, spontaneously reclaiming our power back, nurturing, and understanding the child within us. It is by helping care for the small version of you that you uncover your own kind of beautiful, no matter who you are or where you are.

Acknowledging your “Inner child” is a pretty fun way of life. The relationship between the two is a life-long term relationship. What kind of relationship do you have with yourself?

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inner child self-healing
inner child self-healing
inner child self-healing

“You look at her and see the girl,

Who lives inside the golden world,

But don’t believe, that’s all there is to see,

You’ll never know the real me.

She smiles through a thousand tears and harbors adolescent fears,

She dreams of all that she can never be,

She wades in insecurity, and hides herself inside of me.”  By Mariah Carey


Inner child self-healing

From child to adulthood, we evolve or should. We evolve physically, mentally, emotionally, and hopefully spiritually too.

We remember the feelings; memories are made of how we felt when the events occurred. A child that experiences any traumatic events such as a loss of a family member to suicide sexually molested… abused in any way, shape, or form has these memories stored as feelings. The accuracy of the event itself years later is likely blurred, forgotten, the details are lost in time however how you felt back then, not.

These are translated and experienced throughout life such as betrayal, rejection, abandonment, shame, guilt, on it goes regardless of how they’ve been repressed or how the child dissociated.

Life goes on… kids grow up but those feelings never go away; haunt us every so often in one way or another, direct or indirectly, becoming part of who we are; Regardless of the years that go by those memories of insufficiency, inadequacy, abandonment undeniably influences our choices negatively from childhood to adolescence throughout to adulthood. The negative impact throughout life is a fact!

Distorted decisions alter the trajectory that our lives take forever.

Understand this, and your life can change for the better

 Can we heal trauma from childhood?

If we can understand ourselves, our sorrows, pains, instead of resisting and fighting them? Recognizing the internal chaos within and healing it changes completely what we experience externally too.

In order to experience contentment, peace, authenticity healthy self-esteem, self-love we need to change what we think and perceive about ourselves. A good start is by nurturing the child within us.

Inner child self-healing

I know it is possible to heal your inner child blockages because I have and am succeeding at it myself because I wanted to experience life with fewer limiting beliefs, live a more pleasurable, fulfilling, and meaningful life how about you?

Inner child self-healing is to honor the sacredness of our personal experience

To honor the sacredness of every experience we would want to begin “fine-tuning” the frequency of our hearts.


“…going back and healing the little girl in me, so that the woman can be free… going back to the little boy within so that the man can show up and give himself permission to cry when necessary… By Lisa Nichols


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What is in need of healing

If you would like to explore further continue reading

  • Let repressed memories and emotions resurface,
  • Let the hurting version of you come to its expression who hurt you, what hurts you, why it hurts…?
  • Count on the little brave hero inside to tell you “How and what hurts you most”
  •   Did you as a child starved for confirmation, reassurance, love, approval of any sort or never got any? if so, today you can assure and promise your mini-you, that you will and can take care of things better now than ever before, and that everything will be ok.

If you can break this barrier, you will appreciate the value of digging deeper and nurturing yourself.


Caroline Myss is a five-time New York Times bestselling author and internationally renowned speaker in the fields of human consciousness, spirituality and mysticism, health, energy medicine, and the science of medical intuition. She is fabulous!

Caroline Myss in this video, Choices that can Change your life. The 3 key choices we can make to change our life. 

 

Hope you have watched it and enjoyed it. If not, I insist you give it a shot only 26 minutes “time well wasted is never wasted time”, you may thank me later.

Practice and apply these concepts, let them talk to you, lack of anything exists when we’re not aligned with our desires and wish-fulfilling. Healing opens the gates of the abundance you seek.

The focus is on your inner being; the basic and ultimate goal is self-love.

” Your Inner child says I see you, please see me too…” 

    Below is a guided meditation – for the beginning of your inner child healing – be brave, nothing is impossible.



If you have any feedback about inner child and self-healing in this context that you’ve tried or any questions about the ones I recommend, please leave your comments below!



Stay blessed, Stay put, in love, for love, with love & Sparkles for your amazingness!!

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Turn your thoughts into a Love Source

Turn your thoughts into a Love Source

Turn your thoughts into a Love Source

Drift towards Love,

Turn your thoughts into a Love Source, because love is endless…

Each small step towards awareness, mindfulness, healing in the Love energy arena that links and nurtures wellbeing of the Body, Mind & Spirit, its interrelationship and connectedness, is a fascinating topic for me. How Love does it? Let’s figure this one out together along the way. Meanwhile, remember to share with us your view on the topic ¦)


Love is the link, that connects and drives Body Mind Spirit abundantly, successfully, be it collectively or individually 

Love is the source of our divinity

Authenticity is the step ahead of Self-commitment to ‘truth’

IF you feel unheard … I can hear you now


Turn your thoughts into a Love Source is familiarizing with Self-love

When we’re acquainted with self-love, we experience a sense of fulfillment. We do not feel isolated when alone and therefore experience emotional and spiritual abundance, connection, radiate love, and feel loved and appreciated in return.

          ” Solitude is a guilty pleasure of over-indulging treasured times”

When we’re NOT familiar with self-love

We build on an illusionary foundation. Our emotional infrastructure is shaky, needy, and lonely. We reside in a sandcastle, on a verge of falling apart any time – all the time; we look outside of ourselves for love, hoping to find somebody who can overturn this judgment of ourselves. 

“Loneliness is guilt painfully indulging in self-pity”

—–  ℘  —–

So now that we have an idea (the shortest version), about when we are and when we are not experiencing Self-love and the difference between Loneliness and Solitude, let’s dive a little deeper.

Before we go any further, I should say that I believe self-love is the only way to free our spirits from the miseries we subject ourselves to.

The practice of loving ourselves even if here and there is seeking to respect the essence of our being by living in harmony; With a healthy body, wise mind, and a free spirit.

Abundance is generated when we intentionally Redirect all traffic to its Love Source.


Source: University of Minnesota Earl E. Bakken Center for Spirituality & Healing

…the brain and peripheral nervous system, the endocrine and immune systems, and indeed, all the organs of our body and all the emotional responses we have, share a common chemical language and are constantly communicating with one another.                                                                                                                                    … our thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and attitudes can positively or negatively affect our biological functioning. In other words, our minds can affect how healthy our bodies are! On the other hand, what we do with our physical body (what we eat, how much we exercise…) can impact our mental state (again positively or negatively). This results in a complex interrelationship between our minds and bodies.” by Dr. James Gordon (founder of the Center for Mind-Body Medicine)

 webpage:  https://www.takingcharge.csh.umn.edu/what-is-the-mind-body-connection


Turn your thoughts into a Love Source

(body, mind & spirit)

The physical, mental, and emotional interconnection is being learned the hard way by us.

Love as a language that we all talk or should and that does not mean language as we define it, “as the principal method of human communication, that consists of words used in a structured and conventional way”; I mean rather a language that transcends time and space, non-conventional, that we all know, talk and experience on an ongoing basis. As such, and from the “self” point of view, this is very useful to understand as I came to learn it the hard way myself.     

“Wake up to that Love. What is gone cannot return, what’s about to come needs to be recognized”(From the Winner stands alone book by Paulo Coelho)

Often, we individually cut ties, discredit, ridicule, detour, or withdraw altogether from this form of communication and so here’s how we sever self-love. Moreover, however, we deprive ourselves of healing and all sorts of divine things. We asphyxiate ourselves with the mind, ego-based thinking process. Only that, we all know at least a hand full of negative shit – that grows itself when we give wings to our imagination.

The law of perpetual transmutation of energy asserts that energy can neither be created nor destroyed. Still, it changes from one state to another. This means that the energy in the universe is always transmuting into and out of form.

Exploring our energy centers (called Chakras as I may have brought to light before) may well broaden anyone’s horizon about the relationship and dynamic of body-mind-spirit on an energetic level. More on this in future posts. If you haven’t already researched the topic, it is something I would encourage everyone to do.

Turn your thoughts into a Love Source

 

” We are just as brave in either direction we choose to go”, the difference is in the experience that we create for ourselves, and others in the process”

 

*Resonance as per Wikipedia is the phenomenon of increased amplitude that occurs when the frequency of a periodically applied force is equal or close to the natural frequency of the system on which it acts...

When we radiate love, we create a resonance that attracts more of a kind. We get to interact with our outer world in the same manner – the world in turn as if a mirror, reflects what we project back to us. We get more of the same back because we attract more of alike as it resonates with our vibration.

The Love frequency that our traffic embeds, attracts our tribe.

  • Chase peace in turbulent times, to get more peace
  • Face your fears as opposed to justifying them and choose your battles as many aren’t worth fighting for.
  • Relate to others with love. Using others as scapegoats is a disgrace to humanity.
  • What you give is what you get – Be generous, humble, and grateful before you ask for it in return.
  • Not doing to others what you would not like done to you is called self-care and self-respect.
  • You are your own ambassador; your worth begins from within and does not need anyone else to reassure it.
  • Acting amongst humans in resemblance of vultures, hyenas, and rats (although these are important) they are important for the eco-system, not necessarily for the human beings’ experience with one another

I encourage anyone to change and replace old outdated views or beliefs that can no longer serve them.  Isn’t it true that one can be physically incarcerated but spiritually and emotionally free? Often, we incarcerate ourselves all on our own – but still, blame others.

My burning desire for freedom to seek knowledge without boundaries from limitations, or narrow-minded and ignorant People, truth, authenticity, and love are the paths that lead me to serve others, and well I hope!? However, at least disillusioned by the masks that society wears.

“…allow yourself to become a different person than you are now than you were in the past and will be in the future…”

We are the exact person we believe ourselves to be, the question is, are you going to look at yourself in the rear-view mirror and expect to see a different you today?

The being you wish to be, the life you wish to live, and the potential you wish to have been yours, you have it, only your mind is your limitation.  Manifesting is projecting heartedly with pure intent and for the highest good of all anything and everything that we desire onto the universe unapologetically.

 Looking for reasons as to why it isn’t working for you is to lose complete focus on what you want. It is quitting at the start when things get hard because others are already doing a good job! IT IS A USELESS lifestyle – just saying…

It is up to each one of us to funnel or redirect all our traffic to its source, all of it. Together we can channel and transmute anything less than great to be changed.  The energy in the universe is always transmuting into and out of form. This means that ultimately, we humans have the potential to create a less painful, experience, perhaps less self-destructive. Be yourself a Link to this vision start now, start Within. Only we can stop sabotaging ourselves… to live a life with meaning.

Life is a journey, not a destination, for you, for me, this is… for all of us.

Where there is a will there is a way

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Stay blessed, Stay put, in love, for love, with love & Sparkles for your amazingness!!