How to Heal and Transform?

How to Heal and Transform?

Heal and Transform from within is like the process of a caterpillar transforming into a butterfly or a seed into a beautiful flower. Either process has its time and so does the process of learning unconditional Love to transform ourselves. Because I love music, here’s a song for you My way 

Three valuable steps in the process to Heal & Transform from within

  • Discover your own limiting beliefs, misconceived ideas, characteristics, and personality traits.
  • Unravel what you think of yourself, and be assured that you don’t become what others think of you- Thank God lol
  • Re-think all that you think you should be, should look like or should not be, or not look like, Just be you!

You are divine because you are you, with all your flaws – Rediscover yourself

We create beliefs that may well be very different from who we truly are at our core essence. Being whole includes our flows, failures, faults, and all. You need not apologize for not being perfect. why should anyone? Just Because…? is not a good enough answer. There is no need to regret being who we were either, in fact, we aren’t even everything we think we are anyway.

“The ‘next moment’ only happens when the one before is left behind so that the new can unfold for us”

What we think, envision, sense, and or perceive is carried or released, expressed or compressed, within or amongst ourselves,  through an invisible energy field. Pay attention to this…

To Heal, be Authentic

“Authenticity means we’re true to our emotions, own values, and spirit, regardless of the pressure that we’re under to act otherwise”. It means being honest with ‘self’ and also with others as a result. Authentic people take responsibility for their mistakes.

Heal and Transform

Who we´re and what we become is a by-product of our thoughts, emotions, belief systems, experiences, challenges, actions, etc. Life happens for us, not to us. I can not stress this enough.

By grasping this concept, we understand that we need not lie to ourselves or others, acceptance of taking ownership and responsibility for our actions is crucial to achieving the overall well-being that we seek. While what others say to us or about us maybe or not be relevant at times, the fact is that ultimately we are the choice makers.

We often repeat negative thoughts, and lie to ourselves so many times that eventually we believe the lies we tell ourselves; In fact, if we believe what we think, which we do pretty often, then our thoughts or beliefs are also only just ours not so? Not only do we judge and beat ourselves, but we’re also likely our hardest critics, as a result, we are a product of our own doing.

To Heal Be Mindful

What if, we begin minding and being more thoughtful, and careful with what we tell ourselves? Be mindful of your thoughts, and your Words. We become what we think. Words are the most powerful tool we have, they really can destroy our self-concept and that of others, since we attract more of what we do and say, say only what we mean. We have the choice of control, so what are you thinking and creating in your life right now?

Self-Love, Respect, and Forgiveness are my journeys, best friends. The best version of me depends on it, why do I resist, fight and fear Change then?

What are your fears? What is blocking you from moving forward?

Transformation from within


Self-care is a practice, practice it every day, every moment is a revelation and is forever evolving when we don’t resist that is, and so we either stagnate or soar. We know that we evolve when we change our thoughts, actions, and behavior towards ourselves, don’t we? So why resist and stagnate?

Furthermore when there is harmony energy flows effortlessly through our physical, mental, and emotional selves. When in synchronicity, connected communicating we know who we’re meant to be. We’re evolving human beings, not perfect ones.

Becoming one with ‘ body-mind-spirit is fulfilling and crucial for our wellbeing and contentment. The Journey is the opportunity itself. A potential that is meant to serve us. Transformation is lots of small changes that happen as we take action towards fulfilling our desires.

    Life is our creation – Transforming ourselves is matching the vibration of unconditional love

Do you underestimate the power that negative emotions and limiting beliefs have on you? 

We easily dismiss the power of small steps or small things, think about bacteria and viruses, for example, how small they are. They go undetected yet they have the power to wipe out millions and destroy economies, right?

Can anyone argue that we are not 100% authentic with ourselves? feelings? believes, likes, dislikes, and so on? Yet 99% of us know when we are not truthful to ourselves but choose to ignore it. This hurts us more than we realize and distorts our purpose.

At times we aren’t heard. We feel neglected, undermined, rejected, and judged, often we say Yes when No it is. We can only get what we have the courage to ask for. Are you a People pleaser? and so disserving yourself? I have been there and done it, and it is because it is so, that I can talk about it. 

For instance, don’t we go against ourselves to be accepted? to please others? be liked? don’t we go to any lengths to avoid conflict? However, it is often and precisely this very internal conflict that brings about discontentment and impacts us negatively on all levels. How many of us are not guilty of that?

To Heal Take responsibility for your wellbeing

It is up to each individual to free themselves and stop sacrificing their own essence in exchange for acknowledgment, worthiness, acceptance, and so on.

Healing is a decision just like one person can not stop eating for another to lose weight, no one else can transform nor change anything in your life for you. Only you can!

The sole responsibility to live a truthful, mindful, authentic life or not is on you. Blaming others is a sign of a lack of ownership and responsibility for our actions. Others are never truly responsible for absolutely nothing in your life – Only You are!

Grab and steer the wheel of your ship (life). Dedicate your time exploring all possibilities, and be the best you can be at navigating through the obstacles and challenges, but equally important is that whatever you do, you don´t settle for anything less than what you deserve.

       ‘YOU’ know what is beautiful? Read the first word again…

Transformation from within

Body, mind, and spirit co-exist, they are inter-linked ¨they are one” and connected! 

Have you noticed how we compartmentalize, body, mind, and spirit? interesting right? as if they were different entities, the body is the vessel, your thoughts influence your emotions and your body… Your physical and emotional hearts speak the language of the soul, they evolve together believe it or not. When out of synchronicity it manifests as dis-ease, we feel conflicted, confused, lost, faithless, fearful, lazy, and sick –  pretty much disconnected. Change is not losing anything it is, in fact, gaining everything when we do, it doesn’t just affect us, it affects also those around us as a ripple. “Your vibe attracts your tribe”

“If the only tool you have is a hammer, you tend to see every problem as a nail.Abraham Maslow’s. Sadness, helplessness, anger, embarrassment, fear, frustration, disappointment, and guilt, are all well known to be the very same nails we hammer or have been hammering throughout our lives into ourselves.

Persevere living outside the bubble of judgment, to see and accept who you are. Aligning with whom we are now and are meant to be is to allow the divine being within express itself.

Leak your wounds and celebrate your divinity. This is time for your expansion, you’re being magnified so get to terms with it and be faithful to yourself, that is not being selfish, that is practicing self-Love

Are you ready for awesomeness?

You do likely know that we depend on good bacteria for good health? Furthermore, not all bacteria are bad. In the realm of thoughts, beliefs, and emotions are the same, drama, trauma, pain balance and harmony can also lead to fulfillment, great accomplishments, healings, miracles, and life changes.

Be Open and Welcome Change

What small changes do you need or can make today? Does your operating system require re-booting? update? restart? or recover? to run at its full potential towards the fulfillment of your desires? I encourage personal growth, that you let loose the God/Goddess within; Moreover let go of your mask, self-expression, creativity, and love be your guide.

Is transformation or change easy?

Who hasn’t experienced emotional pain in one way or another? Sometimes that pain takes forever to overcome too, often affecting entirely who we become. Aren’t we aware that it is never too late to change something, anything that no longer serves us?

  • There is nothing easy about digging old wounds to heal. Nothing of a kind is easy in this process, far from it.
  • acknowledging the need to heal
  • understanding what needs to be dealt with
  • shifting our perspective or views and forgiving

IT IS WORTH IT, let the past stay where it belongs, It is a personal choice to embrace the self-healing and transformational journey. Don’t allow irrational circumstances to inhibit your objectives – Be the observer.

Caterpillars do all the work so butterflies can show their beauty 

♥ I know you can, do YOU know it yourself? ♥

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Your pain does not have to define you but it can refine you” 

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Stay blessed, Stay put, in love, for love, with love & Sparkles for your amazingness!!

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  1. Wow Tania what a amazing page. Lots we can learn from people that were there and know how to help and advice other. You topics is amazing something in all of it for me.

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